Grief and Casseroles

Have you every wonder why people find the need to say something when something not so good happens. Where did we come up with the idea that we must say something when bad things happen. Why is it not just enough for you to be present with the person and say nothing. Why is that not okay? I have learned in my many years that saying nothing is sometimes the best thing to say. I have found to be honest that I don’t really know what to say. And even if I did would it make how the person feels any better or would it make them feel worse. What Am I trying to prove when I come up with these words. That really sometimes makes no sense. Am I trying to say that I undrstand how the person feels. Well that’s really not true because we all feel different even if we have ahd the samething happen to us. I love how Pastor Nadia explains how to responsed when some one is hurting. What kind of casserole will you bring to the gathering?

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